Just remember that the living with, eating with, etc. is a means to your end. The goal isn't to truly become friends with them, but to make them do you will. Bonds are inevitable, but the goal is manipulation.
That's what sucks about Special Forces. We so habitually back the wrong horse that a career-SF Sniper is telling a shithead on the internet (me) to not get too attached to the people he's training to fight, both with and for him.
From its inception, in post-WWII Europe with
Operation Gladio, which was essentially a string of state-sponsored false flag operations (into which multiple foreign governments have launched investigations), to
Vietnam, which was a bloody maelstrom that we didn't even have a dog in the fight of, and ended about as poorly as a campaign could end, to El Salvador, during which
we trained Death Squads at
the School of the Americas (there are people in my family tree that died as a result of these actions), to Panama, which would've been sweet if we hadn't bailed and left a wake of looting and rape, to Iraq, where we've basically decimated the country that has since spawned ISIL/ISIS and whose disgraced army is fueling. The mission has rather quickly evolved into perpetuating states of conflict for economic interests rather than national interest.
Don't get me wrong - I think the past, present, and future of warfare is UW and FID. I am in awe of the capabilities of SF, and weaponizing an indigenous population is ingenious. But it'd be a hell of a lot more effective if we were backing people we'd be happy to sacrifice ourselves for, and using humans as ammo in our force multiplication is only justifiable if our goals are noble. We play shitty games abroad, and it sucks, because if we were the righteous fist of vengeance and vigilance, SF would be the most badass organization in world history. Our endgame needs to rival our capabilities. The notion that there's dudes out there who wake up and go "Well, today I'm gonna fly 5,000 miles and make friends with some bearded motherfucker who shits in a bush and train his eleven sons how to shoot an AK, AMD, CAR, or motherfucking Khyber Pass FAL, and then fight along side them and maybe get hit by a fucking Russian surplus mortar that some fucking Mooj stole 30 years ago from an over-run soviet base that my CO trained them to take" is humbling, but the fact that that caliber of guy is wasted on going to some shithole l
ike Iraq for no fucking reason is a fucking heartbreaker to me. And yes, I have read those reports that the CIA bought the Iraqi WMD right out from under indigenous forces, but that just makes it all the more AAAAARGH-worthy to me. They'd just
sell them? Motherfucking SERIOUSLY? We didn't need dudes who can overthrow a country to get them?
Right now, the men outmatch the mission, and that is the greatest travesty of all.
Disclaimer: I don't mean this as an insult. That said, there's guys here who are smart enough to know I respect them and don't mean this as an insult and there's guys that aren't, so... let 'er rip. This is gonna get eaten apart, but I said what I said and I stand by it - SF is fucking awesome; or our foreign policy isn't. I truly, sincerely, do not presume to tell you vastly-braver motherfuckers how to live your lives or how they've been spent. They're yours; I can't tell you how to spend them and I certainly can't criticize the way you did. That isn't what this is.
This is probably where I get banned, so please know I didn't mean this as disrespect.
Also, sorry, Panama should read "wherein we deposed an
American-trained military official who succeeded a populist military leader-turned-political leader after backing him and then discrediting him as a Narco, despite the fact
that he was on the CIA payroll under a CIA Director-turned-President under whom Cocaine proliferation in the United States rose 300% up
until his very undignified capture.