I have been working with an organization that caters to the SOF community specifically. The name is LZ Grace. The SEALs probably know about the place. If you need a place to clear your head, maybe get away for a bit, look it up. The lady that runs it is a SEAL widow and is one of the nicest people you'll ever meet. There's horses, gardens, dogs, and just wide-open space. Everything there is very private.
http://lz-grace.com/
http://lz-grace.com/