The battalion SGM especially loved my Mossy Oak camo GIT'R Done hat and the five different types of camo on my rack. He never complained because we had our shit wired tight.
Ah you are one of those guys...
Do you know why SRNCO's push all that regulation BS? Discipline, in line units, you have to have it and you would be surprised how quickly a unit can fall apart when its not enforced. It starts with the little things like wearing the proper uniform and meeting the grooming standard. Lax up and let your guys run a muck with uniform and grooming standards, and stand there scratching your head when you find out a squad as been going out killing locals for fun, or raping girls, or all kinds of stupid shit (extreme example).
Disciplined units need to be, more so than being an outcast cool guy. Being wired tight and performing a job well, isn't a get out of jail card for wearing unauthorized head gear. Some Joe is looking up to you, man that air force cat is cool, look at him, he kills more guys with a radio than our platoon could, and he wears what he wants, when he wants. Man I want to be like that guy. Next thing you will see is him sporting a ball cap in the field, trying to look like you. As someone who is being looked up to, what example do you want to set with him? Your rank may be funny looking, and your service branch may be different, but you're still a leader, still an American service member and still an influence on the soldiers you work with.
I get it with SOF guys, they are mature, disciplined and need to be different. My advice would be when running around with an ODA look and act the part, when running around with Infantry, look and act the part. But above all, represent yourself and your branch in the best manner possible, from regulations to job performance. Doing so will not only win the admiration of your peers, and PVT snuffy, but also those SRNCO's. And that's something to really be proud of, vs your cool "get her done" ball cap.
As for putting leaders in their place when they are wrong. I absolutely agree, you're the expert in that subject, that's why your job exists. And applaud you for being able to do so in a professional manner.
My $.02