I went through the Q-course in the late 80's. During an (I suspect, contrived) two-day scheduling break, many of us were privileged to hear Nick Rowe address the SF graduating class in June (I think) of 1988. Everybody came to hear him tell his story of abuse and escape. (I really don't know why we expected that. It wasn't like we all hadn't read his book, or he didn't KNOW we had all read it.)
What we got instead was 30 minutes of what I refer to as: "Expectations on the Ethical Responsibilities of America's Warriors.". It was powerful. Once Nick Rowe told you HIS expectations of you, you never wanted to disappoint him. I've been studying the ethics of crisis ever since.
He was an amazing human.