OK, I'm just gonna say it. From MY perspective (FWIW) she/he looks like a dyke (not lesbian; dyke). The Birkenstock wearing, granola crunching, armpit and leg hair having, corset hating, lipstick eating, stiletto eschewing, bra burning, enemy of feminism. REAL feminism is knowing when wearing red gets you what you want. It's saving THAT perfume for HIM. It's keeping the ropes in the closet, not hanging them on the chandelier for your in-laws to see just to "make a statement."
OK, maybe less wine with dinner tomorrow.