First, the Iraqi foreign intelligence under Saddam wasn't very successful in planting agents abroad, and had, if memory serves me correctly, pretty much given up on the practice for some time.
Actually, they had pretty good success at placing people abroad, to include the US, throughout the 80s and beyond. That is one of the reasons I was upset, because I didn't have any control what was being put out publicly from 7000 miles away, and aside from not knowing initially what was put out, I also couldn't be sure who was reading it.
Early on in OIF, our local rag started going even a bit further, printing pictures of people deployed and biographical info, which I thought was foolish. I didn't hold it against my mother for talking back in '90, I'm pretty sure somebody she worked with at the school district contacted the newspaper (the "feel good" part of the story was about a huge care package of about 6 boxes they sent me and my company). The article went way beyond that, and started getting political and also giving up too much information.
If anybody from the media ever contacted me to talk about a third party, the very first thing I would do is consider the person in question. Aside from keeping my mouth shut, I would get in touch with that individual to let him/her know that the media was asking questions. Even if that person gave the thumbs up to talk to them, I'm fairly certain I wouldn't. I know how things get taken out of context, in both the print and the broadcast mediums. They are always looking for some quote or pithy comment that stands out, and in my mom's case they got one.
The Tillman situation is troubling on several levels, not the least of which is the Army brass making an effort to not only withhold information from the family, but to concoct a completely different version of events to portray what occured in a different light. This situation had already occured early on with Jessica Lynch, and here they were doing the same thing a few years later. At this point, no matter what the Army says on the matter, the Tillmans are never going to buy whatever story they are selling. And seeing people held accountable at this point, in their eyes, is just further manipulation of a tragic situation. While I don't agree with what Kevin Tillman said, and I have a feeling Pat would be upset with his testimony, I can see why they appeared in public. That family has, like Pat, avoided the media since he joined the Army and after he was killed. I guess a family can only take so much before they get their side of the story out.