Wow!
A 23 yo with a Marketing degree who knows everything! And it only took you 5 years to accomplish that, that's impressive.
Why ask for advice if you dismiss and disregard everything presented to you? These gentlemen have taken their precious time to give you, a total stranger, words of wisdom in a field where they are SME's*. You know absolutely nothing about the military; they have seen more, done more and experienced more than your imagination can conjure. Some of them have lived through stuff your worst nightmare would cringe from.
*SME = Subject matter expert. Because I wouldn't want to be accused of using unknown military terminology.
Your words from another thread:
My reasons for joining. I'm very patriotic and want to serve my country first and foremost. I think it would be exciting and adventurous and a great leadership opportunity. I'm attracted to the camaraderie. I simply think I would enjoy it and be good at it.
Wow. Again.
You worked hard to string together that para. A lot of thought and eloquence crammed into those 46 words.
Well, guess what? Joining the military isn't fun most of the time, and it isn't adventurous or enjoyable. But when you're cold, hungry, wet and haven't slept for more than a few hours at a time in a month, (did I mention, really hungry?), I'm sure those words will warm you and keep the hunger at bay.
But what do I know, hmmm? I was just a pogue, a female, and not on the front lines or in special operations. Wrong - I've been hungry, cold, and tired, all while still performing my job. Because ALL jobs in the military, esp the Army or Marines involve cold, wet, nasty, miserable environments. And guess what? That's where you'll end up too - back in support, maybe clerical, because you've got a bit of intelligence, at least enough to get a degree, although nowadays, you'll probably end up as a bullet magnet. Know why you'll end up there? You don't have the strength of character to do what these gents did. You'll wash out. You can bluster and try to bullshit, but I've known this caliber of men for longer than you've been alive and they don't bluster, bullshit, or ignore/disrespect advice given to them.
If you were serious about your patriotism and your desire to join the military, you'd have signed on the dotted line long before today. You'd have done your research, made up your own mind without whining and headed straight for that 25m target - Basic Training. Which by the way, is where I spent my 19th birthday. One of the best and most memorable birthdays of my life.
There's a lot of leadership opportunity in Basic Training. I encourage you when you get there - if you've got the guts to sign - to show your drill's all your leadership abilities. And if you manage to make it to a unit, again, try there too. Oh, wait, you want to be an officer, well, I'm sure in OCS there are plenty of leadership opportunities, as well as that first duty assignment as a cherry lieutenant.
Small hint - since I'm being nice tonight - the greatest trait of some of the best leaders is the ability to follow. Think you got it in you to follow?
Here's some more advice you will undoubtedly ignore - read more and post less. Have some respect for those who have served - they are part of a long lineage of brothers in combat who gave you the freedom to leisurely make your way through college.
LL