I spent all of my Recon time with Battalion, and it starts off being what you think it will be. Hard realistic training, getting a little more leway on how you conduct business, better gear, more schools, and solid guys. However, for me personaly as I got older and learned more about SOCOM and what types of missions go to who I wanted more. Now Force was doing more than we were but not by a huge margine. They were doing targeting but it was mostly on a local level as opposed to a theater or strategic level. Don't get me wrong I loved being a Recon Marine, technically still am, a lot of tradition and pride in that, but in order for me to do what I thought I would be doing with Recon I had to take it to the next level. I'm happy with the operational side of things over here. Getting to do all the "cool guy" stuff I thought I'd be doing as a Recon Marine.
Like Teufel said problems at the field grade level are there, but they appear to be getting sorted out. Things can be better, but if there is one thing I've learned over the past 11 years is that something can always be better and if you look hard enough you can find something to complain about no matter where you are.
Going back to your first question about why guys would go to Force instead of MARSOC. These days Foce is made up of younger guys at the team level vs back in the day when it was mostly older guys, minus the TL and maybe ATL so a lot of them just don't have the time in to try out for MARSOC. Or in the case of TL or PLT Sgt's they have too much time. And then there are people like a buddy of mine who think there has to be a natural progression. In his case Infantry, Sniper, Recon, Force Recon, and now even though he wants to do it and would be awesome he'll be to senior for MARSOC by the time he can take selection. That plus what Teufel said about wanting to be a part of that tradition.
No disrespect, I am just an outsider looking in, but ( excluding the fact Rangers are a part of SOCOM) I see the same relation between Rangers and Special Forces- where the first also serve as a "feeder" for the second- evolving gradually between Recon-Force Recon and MARSOC. Even nowadays according toMARSOCs site, you can apply as a E-7 with up to 17 years of service.
You can also apply as an E-4 but I see this changing when they get their numbers up to where they want them. Even now you have to be an E-5 to get the new 0372 MOS, if I am not mistaken.
My point is that MARSOC will gradually go the Special Forces way, in the "by, through, with" sort of indirect side of the fence, with older more mature people.
So, some aggresive Recon young studs will prefer Force Recon anyway, for a while and when they get in higher grades will cross over to MARSOC ( not many places for an E-6, E-7 and E-8 on a Force Recon Platoon) in order to remain part of a small operational Team.
Some others will cross over sooner, and then some more will stay in Recon-Force Recon for their whole career.
I suspect that getting to be "dual cool" as a part of the FR pipeline, plays a role too in atrracting people from the Recon community, since its not a sure thing in MARSOC even if you are a CSO. And maybe being a part of a much smaller more "personal" community
In terms of missions you obviously know much better ( and Teufel too) but I think FR has seen its fair share of action and missions working for the Corps especially in Afghanistan.
Again this is just an outsiders opinion, I hope you bear with me.