Family while in SOF

[“The Old Man”]

Get prepared for the Royal Kiss Off ("Dear John Letter") about two months into your first deployment.

With all due respect he never said he was married (and if he was, then I wouldn't have commented on his situation) and me and my GF (we are a serious couple we have been together for pretty much our whole lives as we were childhood friends) we had a moment similar to this. I didn't want to type all this because my device is hard to type on. She wanted to be a USCG Rescue Swimmer. And I want to serve in a SOF medical role. And we talked it out and it was determined that I will join and she wouldn't. If I couldn't join then she would. Again sorry if I sound rude or disrespectful, I have all the respect possible for you men and women on here. And anyway I laid it out in a similar way, and it resolved our problem I figured if it worked for us, it might work for him. Hate to say it for a third time, but just so it's made very clear, I have all the respect possible for you men and women and hope to in the future gain knowledge and engage in conversation with everyone here. So I apologize if this sounds rude or disrespectful, but two well respected members have liked my comment.

I would cease and desist young man. You really do not know where you tread. Your question has been answered... move on.

 

[GOTWA]

Hope you brought your floaties because you're making some big waves.

 

[Grunt]

Situational awareness is a big part of this site and there comes a point in threads like this where people get to the point where they don't suffer fools lightly anymore. Wisdom says, "Move along smartly now."

 

[medicchick]

You make it sound like there are two choices and that's it. You can't speak to anything marriage because you would be speaking out your ass. You come across as a know it all bipolar kid. I know what it's like to pull papers, I know what it's like to give up a career, I know what it's like to move thousands of miles from everyone and everthing you know, except for one person. Come talk to me when you have lived life at all. To quote GoT

You know nothing Jon Snow.

 

[“The Old Man”]

With that said. Maybe this thread needs to be closed.

 

[coolusername]

You guys are right, I do sincerely apologize if it seemed rude or disrespectful. I didn't mean to say that there are only two choices. Medicchick I will send you a PM.

 

[Ooh-Rah]

With that said. Maybe this thread needs to be closed.

Cool.

@coolusername - take a few days to read and not post, okay? This is the 3rd thread you’ve been involved in that a staff member has closed down.

Locked.