SEAL bashing is a guilty pleasure of mine, being a former Recon Marine (we have a bit of maritime rivalry with the SEALs). That said, and despite the stuff you've seen in the news recently, every single SEAL I've met and worked with (and we worked with a fair few of them when they started doing VBSS again) was a solid dude.
There's bad apples in every organization - no matter how high you climb. While I wouldn't have wanted to be a SEAL, and they may have had some issues, if you think all of them are jacked up or immoral or something, then you are way off base.
Bottom line, decide for yourself what mission set you are interested in and pursue that path. No paths are perfect, and you'll have to deal with different flavors of BS no matter which you pursue.
Coming at this from a different angle, what is it that attracted you to the SEALs in the first place?
You said it perfectly. I couldn’t say it better myself. This conversation has happened a lot recently, some of it in PMs and some of it on the forum:
Review of SOF Structure and Culture
This question frustrates me but I can’t say I blame the question. I hope the reason for the question is based off your need to be a part of a team that has integrity and a high moral character, rather than just looking for the most popular unit to join.
also the fame the famed they’ve received has also contributed if I’m honest
This is exactly the mentality that has bred any kind of toxic culture we have within the community. We do not want movie stars and divas who think they are better than everyone else. We want humble silent professionals who do not advertise the nature of their work. People who got into this for the fame are entirely the complete problem that we have.
Sounds like you have some growing up to do before you make it into any Special Operations unit.
I agree with DZ as usual.
Decide why you want to be here. I’m concerned with your comments regarding fame.
While you are deciding, I have some homework for you.
Look into
Air Force Combat Controller (CCT),
Air Force ParaRescue(PJ),
Air Force Special Reconnaissance (SR),
Marine Corps Forces Special Operations Command (MARSOC) Raider,
Army Ranger,
Army 160th Special Operations Aviation Regiment (SOAR) Nightstalker,
Navy Special Warfare Combatant-Craft Crewman (SWCC)
Army Psychological Operations (PsyOp)
Army Civil Affairs (CA)