Question and I'm gonna read through the thread to see if it was answered with the 10 pages but if I'm already in the Army as a 68w and fail out of Q course would I go back to being a 68w I feel like going Special operations in your initial enlistment isn't always the best thing
1. Your command of the English language is atrocious. Grammar, spelling, punctuation and capitalization are very important for multiple reasons - comprehension by others, proof of attention to detail, proof of maturity and proof of professionalism. If you ask questions of professionals, it is a sure thing you will NOT be taken seriously with soup sandwich level construction and logical structure as evidenced by the post quoted.
2. You did not ask a question (as I'm assuming that was your intent based on the first word of your post) you made statements.
3. Every statement you made, albeit they were jammed together into that horrible run on drivel you posted, is fully addressed here on the site in multiple places. STFU and read, use the search button to qualify your queries and get answers, then if something is unclear - qualify and distill your information needs into coherent packages and present them in a professional and concise manner. (see point 1 for further reasoning)
4. Your focus at this point should be getting qualified to join the military - good PT scores, communication ability, maturity, professionalism and drive. You haven't told us anything but that you are 22 and have 3 kids - that, does not speak to maturity - just to your inability to keep it in your pants. Will you be able to be separated from your family for long periods of time, relying on your wife to take care of family business without your help? Will you be comfortable giving your wife Power of Attorney over all of your property and money while you are away?
5. You need to give us some information to allow us to define how to respond to your future questions/statements - so you do not get hammered by a bunch of experienced military/SOF guys for being the idiot you appear to be at the moment.
6. Realize that what you think you know and what you really know at this point are so far apart they are in different universes.
7. Focus on each 25 meter target as it presents, overcome it and then move to the next while gaining an awareness of the next further target. Your targets right now are: figuring out if your family situation lends itself to your joining the military without imploding or exploding; figuring out what you want as an initial MOS and whether you are qualified to attempt it; making the hard decision as to whether you are suited to any of the SOF units; getting prepared to meet entry requirements; and finally actually joining the military.
8. If you are not selected at SFAS as an 18x, you go to the needs of the Army as an 11B. If you are MOS qualified in another specialty, you go back to your unit. If you are selected and subsequently fail/are removed from the Q Course, you will be open for assignment at the needs of the Army in the MOS you are most qualified to fill.
Side note - enlisting at 22, with a wife and 3 kids is going to be excruciatingly hard until you get to SSG - which could be as far out as 7-10 years. Although this is wholly demeaning and hard to say, the truth needs to be told- As an E1 to E4, your family will probably be on assistance (WIC or Welfare) if your wife does not work or does not have a good job. This kills many marriages. Know what you are getting in to - the military is not for everybody and will not treat you like a civilian employer - especially if you are in training or deployed. It is not a fall back for a bad civilian job market, it is new way of life, a different world that you can even imagine right now.
Chew on this, do your research and come back after reading with some relevant and well formed questions, you might get some more help.
Final Note - your post is in the wrong place.
