The mathematics of "total votes" could be argued until the cows come home.
So lets "throw out" all of Iowas votes to make it fair, we'll also throw out all of their electoral votes and count that again... Trump still wins
Then lets throw out Californias electoral and popular vote. Trump wins again - and this time he wins even bigger.
...all because we threw out the votes from one state
Look at any electoral map in its final form - it's mostly red. The left coast and the North East are the only hard blue. New York City, DC, LA, Seattle, Chicago, Boston, Portland, Baltimore, and New Jersey is what provided Bill Clinton's wife with her YUGE margin of the popular vote.
A few of these are cities that have citizens electing activists that want to disarm their police, openly advertise that they are going to stop enforcing certain laws, and cities with leaders that think rioters should just be left alone so they can riot. Then consider that in California alone, Bills wife outscored President Trump by 4 million votes. She had a 2 million vote lead in NY and almost a million in Illinois. The classic blue states put her ahead by 7 million votes and in the end, she only held on to a 4 million liberal lead in the popularity contest.
It also needs to be acknowledged that in every state EXCEPT Maine - the candidate that won the popular vote got the electoral votes as well. Maine allocated electoral vote 3 to the Democratic candidate (20,000 vote lead) and 1 to the Republican candidate. EVERY state got what they voted for. Look at the map by precincts and you really will get to see how "your neighbors" voted. Failing cities, led by liberals that are elected by ignorant voters are where you will find the little spots of blue that gave Mrs Clinton the millions of vote lead in the popularity contest.
Lastly, there needs to be an unhappy acceptance of the fact that WE.ARE.NOT.A.DEMOCRACY.
One man one vote is a neat protest slogan - but it is not what put our country on the map.
We are a representative republic that NEEDS the electoral college to survive as the nation that we wish to be.
Everything else is an illusion - created by people that are educated by lobbyists.
But hey - everyone gets a vote even the ones that need to be told not to eat paint chips