Betenhauser

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Do you enjoy your job?

I left active duty in 2010. I was a radio mech and didn't care for the work. Became a nurse, which still isn't exactly my cup of tea, but I'm in nursing leadership now and NP school with rotations at one of my state's VA hospitals. I have been looking at going back in after I graduate, or contracting with [insert acronym-agency here]. I'll make a post about it once I'm settled.

Do you have any further advice and wisdom for me in moving forward?

Take everything I say with a grain of salt, but as rewarding as supporting SF would be, I suspect you might just want to be SF. In which case, you ought to continue to talk to guys on here who are SF, or even call the SF recruiter and discuss options. Things will start to solidify as they give you legit info directly.

Don't forget that there are National Guard SF units too. 19th SFG/20th SFG
 
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Arf

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Whatever your experience of your choice is, please let us know. There are many older guys looking to make these choices, and few who can give answers at that age. I’m an older guy who is considering crossing over to SF myself, yet I also have the same ideas about Nursing and PA, so I am curious about what you choose and how it works out.
 

Buff Commander

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Thank you for all of that information, Betenhauser. I’ll reach out to the SF recruiters for sure. I’ve been researching a lot of this for multiple months now. It’ll be good to actually talk to the SF recruiters and get some actuals.

I still have a few options I’m trying to weigh. And since I’m older and don’t have a lot more time to live and learn, I’ve got to be picky in my choice.

When will you graduate? Are you going to direct commission?
 

Buff Commander

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Whatever your experience of your choice is, please let us know. There are many older guys looking to make these choices, and few who can give answers at that age.
Hey Arf, I’ll certainly keep everyone updated on my experiences. This is going to take me some time to figure it out, so it’s going to be a long road. Not just in making the decision of the route I want to take , but gathering further information, more interviews of active/retired guys, interviewing with the recruiters, and continuing to get into shape which I need plenty of more time for (I’m considering seeking help from 18Alpha Fitness), plus I’m still not happy about the military covid vax requirements. If you want to talk some more hit me up, I can share what I’ve found so far.
 

Brill

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Nothing to figure out honestly. When you hear the Siren’s song, you cannot do anything to tune it out. SOF forces are full of financial analysts, computer nerds, athletes from all levels & every sport, and even small town farmers but many had much more comfortable & stable lives yet went “All In”.

Not all SOF support jobs are back in the rear either. I never had a SF guy ask me or my team to help with FID because we were busy digging into backgrounds of their students (same with KLEs; not involved with leaders but knew a lot about them…and their social circles…and their dick pics).

If you’re a good SOF guy, the team will consider you invaluable to their ops, whatever their mission is. If you’re a good SOF support guy, the team will consider you invaluable to their ops, whatever their mission is.

In my case, A team we were attached to took us out with them on occasion (prob cuz we were Guard and I was old) but one gunfight changed that. Just a few weeks later, we did stuff* with the Fox, Delta, and two SOT-As accompanying our partner force; the rest of the ODA was our QRF.

*When you gotta stop by a friend’s house at 0230 to wish them a Happy Birthday, sometimes 14 dudes are too big, too slow, and too loud.
 

Buff Commander

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Nothing to figure out honestly. When you hear the Siren’s song, you cannot do anything to tune it out. SOF forces are full of financial analysts, computer nerds, athletes from all levels & every sport, and even small town farmers but many had much more comfortable & stable lives yet went “All In”.

Not all SOF support jobs are back in the rear either. I never had a SF guy ask me or my team to help with FID because we were busy digging into backgrounds of their students (same with KLEs; not involved with leaders but knew a lot about them…and their social circles…and their dick pics).

If you’re a good SOF guy, the team will consider you invaluable to their ops, whatever their mission is. If you’re a good SOF support guy, the team will consider you invaluable to their ops, whatever their mission is.

In my case, A team we were attached to took us out with them on occasion (prob cuz we were Guard and I was old) but one gunfight changed that. Just a few weeks later, we did stuff* with the Fox, Delta, and two SOT-As accompanying our partner force; the rest of the ODA was our QRF.

*When you gotta stop by a friend’s house at 0230 to wish them a Happy Birthday, sometimes 14 dudes are too big, too slow, and too loud.
Brill, I appreciate you sharing all of that. I finally figured out the path I'm going to take to get to where I want to be. I've decided to pursue the Army officer route through OCS application. It's the right decision for me. It'll give me time to get experience, learn the Army, improve, and make the decision to go out for SOF at first lieutenant promotable. I still have a long way to go in terms of being in shape and prepared. But, I'm excited for the process.
 

Jaygo

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Yet, I always felt I wasn't doing what I should have been doing. In 2021 I finally realized I had lost the passion and fulfillment I once had. My job is all about helping others, serving others, and I love that. But the way in which I was doing it was no longer satisfactory.
Like many have stated, very nice resume, and congratulations on your accomplishments thus far.

I really sympathize with what I think you're feeling. The itch does not go away. I was in the Marines for an enlistment, completed MARSOC A&S, but was not selected. That was heart breaking, but after reflecting on it for the last 5 years, it's become clear that my maturity was not where it needed to be. Got out, earned a B.S. in physics, and now have an engineering job as a DoD contractor. The pay is very nice, the work is intellectually stimulating, and I still get to support the warfighter in putting warheads on foreheads.. but it does not provide the fulfillment that I suspect both of us are seeking.

I was really hoping the itch would go away, but it's just not.. and the clock is ticking.
Brill, I appreciate you sharing all of that. I finally figured out the path I'm going to take to get to where I want to be. I've decided to pursue the Army officer route through OCS application. It's the right decision for me. It'll give me time to get experience, learn the Army, improve, and make the decision to go out for SOF at first lieutenant promotable. I still have a long way to go in terms of being in shape and prepared. But, I'm excited for the process.
-Have you thought about what you'll try to branch as? I've been debating this route, attempt to branch infantry (obviously no guarantees here), then look at SOF. Downside, you're likely only looking at a few years in an operational capacity on the commissioned side (someone can correct me if this is an inaccurate assessment). It is also a very indirect route to SOF with many break points along the road.

-This has me leaning SF Guard enlisted (get to keep my civilian job, so that's a bonus). I broke out the ol ruck for some runs recently, and DAMN there are some new pains that didn't exist 5 years ago. I finally got my times within standards (still much room for improvement), but aging is a painful mean b*tch. It really gave me a new found admiration and respect for the older guys that have been ground pounders for a decade or more and still crushing it. Truly admirable.

-Army aviation then 160th is also a current front runner and I already have my PPL. But again, this is a very indirect route to SOF with even more break points.

Good luck in your endeavors, keep us updated, and happy grinding.
 
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