This is all such a big deal because he started off this whole thing with a blatant lie about how other presidents didn't call the family members of dead servicemembers, then he did so, and it didn't go over the best. If he wouldn't have spotlighted himself in the first place with a demonstrably false statement it might have not come up at all.
We are in perfect agreement with that. If you go back and read my post concerning him...you will see that we are usually in agreement with his actions and his mouth.