Wow. Nine pages. Just goes to show how strongly we feel about that particular small shard of the mirror we hold individually.
And, just like that, all the world's problems were solved.
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Wow. Nine pages. Just goes to show how strongly we feel about that particular small shard of the mirror we hold individually.
If you don’t like the psychodynamic approach to guilt, perhaps you’ll find the cognitive explanation a bit more palatable. From a cognitive point of view, guilt is an emotion that people experience because they’re convinced they’ve caused harm. In cognitive theory, the thoughts cause the emotions. The guilt of emotion follows directly from the thought that you are responsible for someone else’s misfortune, whether or not this is the case. People who experience guilt on a chronic basis, according to the cognitive perspective, mistakenly suffer under the illusion that they have caused other people harm. Their negative emotion follows from their tendency to misinterpret what happens to them and not to question the logic of their conclusions. In cognitive therapy, treatment often involves teaching people to rid themselves of their “automatic thoughts” that they’ve caused others to suffer. People constantly plagued by guilt are also taught to recognize their “dysfunctional attitudes” so that they recognize when they’re going through such mental processes as catastrophizing (making the very worst of a bad situation) or overgeneralizing (believing that if one bad thing happened, many more must have as well).
In contrast to the psychodynamic view of guilt, the cognitive perspective gives the average person some clues for fixing the tendency to blame yourself for everything that goes wrong. According to the cognitive view, if you change your thoughts, you can change your emotions. Once you realize that you’re inaccurately seeing yourself as causing others to suffer, you can readjust your mental set and more realistically figure out your role in whatever grief came their way.
-Borrowed from Psychology Today
The Definitive Guide to GuiltYou can decide or not whether you want to continue to make the sacrifices needed to help these individuals. However, it’s important to separate your desire to help from the guilt you fear will overwhelm you if you don’t. Acting out of guilt can only drain you further and ultimately make you a less effective helper.
-Borrowed from PT
Confederate Soldiers are considered US Veterans by public law. So can we educate the populace correctly. Cause sucked, but not all of the men were evil. Like fuck.
A few weeks ago nobody gave enough of a damn to have this discussion.
In a few weeks no one will give enough of a damn to have this discussion.
Right or wrong, this whole thing is absurd because it matters so much that we kick it to the back burner (the same as any other topic) after a few weeks? GTFO, people have collective ADD on social issues. This will bun out, you'll find something else to hate or support or whatever, and then we'll have another fucked up thread that loses its relevancy after a brief period in the spotlight.
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Speaking as a member of the staff (the above is AWP the person talking) some of you are being looked at. Not for your views, but your presentation and interaction. Your views? Whatever, we don't care. Some actions in this thread? They've gone beyond "passionate" and they haven't gone unnoticed.
Absolutely.
I'm gonna assume we are actually railed on "guilt" viewed in the mirror.
When government offices feel they have to shut down out of fear, that shows me that they are being "terrorized" and I find it repulsive to have to admit that.
It's weird here. It's as if people don't know how to act or how to talk to anyone who looks different at risk of being called fill-in-the-blank. One headline says "Protests in Durham turn into epic dance party." But if you say "boo," it looks like they could rumble.
The city and county has taken so much flack over how they have handled some of this I am not surprised they closed shop and split.
It is a fucking meme. Lighten up.
I simply expect your compliance.