In the last 2-3 hours I pulled off some game-saving "hero" moments. I made plays.
I'm not posting this for your...anything. I'm a below average player, but that's kind of the point. When you make something happen, it frankly feels good. You saved the mission or whatever. You rezzed someone at the right time, you killed the other guy when needed, doesn't matter, you made a play.
So, think about this when dealing with your kids or whoever. They did something, if not important in the big picture, that mattered to them. Skill, luck, and brain power all came together. What's the difference between that and something in the real world? Physical vs. virtual?
That other person may not be a type A but they are a competitor. They are hungry and they want to win. Harness that shit. We need people clicking a mouse as much as people pulling a trigger. Hate to break it to the traditionalists, but the path to victory isn't always a 20 YO with an automatic weapon. Make no mistake, we need that 20 YO with a belt-fed, but we also need others.
Go make plays.