First off nobody is advocating for a Russian occupied Ukraine. Russia needs to be back in their borders and should face devastating consequences. How that happens, I am not sure.
Trying to turn this into a "the United States is fucked up b/c xyz" is dumb. Ukraine would've been walked right the fuck over if it wasn't for the military aid that we have given over the past 7 years. Training, weapons, equipment, etc.
Ukraine agriculture is important to Europe, its important for national sovereignty to be respected and defended. War crimes and war damages need to be accounted for and Russia should absolutely be punished.
However, if you think Ukrainians and their national territory should be completely destroyed to accomplish that, or are willing to see that happen, to beat the big red bear, I am sorry we simply disagree. Russias ace in the hole is nuclear, the world as a whole is not going to have a full on response to Russia, unless they use them, Russia knows this, so the only real way the rest of the world jumps into this war "officially" is if/when Ukraine gets nuked. At which point we have WW3 and a nuclear conflict in Europe. I am sorry, but I don't see how the fuck that is good for anyone on this planet, much less the Ukrainians. I am simply advocating for a more peaceful solution, where Ukraine comes out holding their heads high and independent, Russia goes home with their tail between their legs, and the world doesn't have a nuclear wasteland in Eastern Europe.
Idk, I guess that pretty un-American of me...